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I tell my mum about what I have discussed with my child friend in the evening today. She is very pleased. She asks me to write down the main points that my child friend and I have discussed in my logbook of scouting.


I write down it in the pages of helping others as


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Helping Others to Enjoy Dreams


I write about those who I enjoy good dream, but not the bad dreams. Our conversation, we have discussed it. I discuss it my mum and she always helps me to improve. She says that for a discussion point of view, we take one of the most important points in our logbook.


She advises me that she would ask me and I will have to answer it as if I ask it and get a reply from the child friend.


She brings a tape recorder.


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“It is simple we do it while we are awake, not in sleep. This is the condition, is not it?” he says.


“You are a funny person,” I say.


“I am not a funny person; I am your child friend. I am getting late for my dinner. OK, see you tomorrow, Happy Peace Night!” he says.


“All right, see you, Happy Peace Night!” I reply.


I enjoy the way he walks talks and explains in the same way as my mother does.


When he leaves the garden, he seems to feel as if he has added beauty to child friendliness.


I can observe it when I meet him every next evening. I leave, while thinking and offering my thanksgiving for the dreams as a gift from Mother Nature.


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“You see when we learn from our dreams and tackle problems. It helps to solve problems properly and we also have better dreams, is not it?” he says.


“You know, you have many good ideas. I understand it, but some children just ignore it, what about those?” I ask.


“You know, granny says that we do not need to ignore it. We just need to share it as if we share other things. Is not it?” he says.


“Do you mean that the dreams can be shared and we can understand it? All right, it is a good idea,” I say.


“Well, you see we can do it only in one condition,” he says.


“Which condition do we need for it? Can you tell me, please?” I ask.


“Well, I will tell you tomorrow,” he says.


“No, tell me right now,” I ask.


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“Please, do not frighten me. I am learning to look at the city from the top of the buildings. You know, mum says it is easy, I will learn. When I can feel easy, then I will say it is easy. Anyway, can you tell me how can we enjoy our dreams while we are in sleep?” I ask.


“We can learn to enjoy,” he says.


“I wonder, can you tell me, how we can learn it?” I ask.


“You see you are learning it from the top of the buildings, is not it. We can learn it if we discuss our dreams with elders and they guide what these dreams convey. If bad dream comes, we can think and analyze it. If we do so the next time we will be lesser afraid in the similar dreams. From our dreams, we slowly learn how to tackle it. Is not it?” he replies.


“Yaw, we can learn as you say. Well, how can we learn to tackle our dreams?” I ask.


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“Yaw, I can give you another example, you know, the dreams are our special gift. We have it as if we see a funny or horror movie, but we may enjoy both. Is not it?” he says.


“Yaw, we enjoy both, you know we you laugh, when we slip in a playground and fall down. It is like enjoying a bad dream. What else granny says about the dreams?” I ask.


“You know, she says that we just have to take all of our dreams as a movie that Mother Nature shows us when we sleep, we can enjoy both good and bad dreams this way, is not it?” he replies.


“Hey! You see your granny is brainy. She is right; we can enjoy it like a movie. Do you know how the dreams help us learning about our self?” I ask.


“Well, it helps in a great way. It is wonderful teaching by our mind. She says that the dreams help us to learn and understand how we really feel. Sometimes we have a dream and see that we are standing at the top of a big building. We may be afraid or enjoy it, is not it?” he says.


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“It is easy, I have learned from my granny that we just need to practice to solve riddles, puzzles and other problems everyday. It is a good help for our mind, is not it?” he says.


“Well, I understand it. Can you explain it more, please?” I ask.


“Yaw, I explain, you know, my granny says that it helps our brain to practice to solve problems. Then we can analyze and enjoy both of our good and bad dreams. Is not it?” he replies.


“Hurray! You have made it simple. I can do it better now. Well, it seems right. I want to hear an example. Can you tell me one?” I ask.


“OK. You see my granny always gives the example of a plant with flowers. She says that we see a plant with thorns and flowers on it. We like the whole of the plant. The flowers are like good dreams and the thorns are like the bad dreams, but after all both are the dreams. Our body, mind, heart and soul together create the dreams, like the flowers and thorns grow on the plant grows, is not it?” he says.


“This is a good example. Can you give me any other example, please; I will share it with my child friends?” I ask.


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“Wow, you are brave. Some children scream, if they have bad dream. Is not it?” I ask.


“You are right, I accept that we need not be afraid of our bad dreams, but then how can we learn,” he asks. “Well, Is not it a difficult task to learn from bad dreams?” I ask.


“Not exactly, my granny says that in a bad dream, our mind works to solve a difficult question, is not it?” he says.


“It is right, I agree that in the bad dreams our mind wants us to solve something difficult. How can we learn and enjoy such dreams, can you explain it to me, please?” I ask.


“You see it is simple. My granny says that we can solve it easily, we just help our mind by giving proper answers to what puzzles us and try to know why this happens, Is not it?” he says.


“Hey! You know, like to solve puzzles. I want to learn more about it. Can you tell me how can we help our mind to solve such puzzles?” I ask.


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“Yaw, I want to know because some of my child friends cannot enjoy all the dreams, will you tell me what granny says about it?” I ask.


“Well, granny says that we cannot learn from the dreams when our body is resting in sleep. She says that we usually feel and say that the dreams we have had are either good or bad. Is not it?” he says.


“Yaw, you are right, we feel happy to have a good dream and tell it to others. If we have had a bad dream, we feel sad. If we keep feeling that the dreams are good or bad, then how can we learn and enjoy?” I ask.


“Well, we have to make an effort to learn from our dreams. If we do not learn, it is not a good thing as we miss something in our total learning. We do not need to be afraid of bad dreams. Is not it?” he replies.


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Next evening, we meet in the peace garden. He tells me that he discusses with his granny about our daily talks and discussions.


He knows that I share it with my mum. We always bring new thoughts and ideas.


His granny enjoys discussing what I ask him. Today he comes in a happy mood. We wish each other and he tells that he has finished his homework before coming to the garden.

As usual, I ask him,


“My child friend, you know some children enjoy good dreams. They cannot enjoy the bad dreams. They try to forget the bad dreams. What do you feel about it?” I ask.


“You know what I feel; I just put my thought bulb on. You see if we try to forget bad dreams, we cannot forget it. Can we forget?” he asks.


“Well, you are right, we can try to forget, but it is not possible. I like your answer, but if we can enjoy good dreams, how can we enjoy the bad ones, will you tell me, please?” I ask.


“Hey! I know you want to discuss how we can always enjoy our dreams, is not it?” he asks.


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I tell her and she writes it with the following heading:


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Learning A Lesson And A Tip For Happy Peace Night


Then she explains to me that my discussion with child friend conveys that if we sometimes enjoy and sometimes cannot enjoy dreams. We can learn it by giving more respect to our body, mind, heart and soul.


If we like our self, we may always enjoy our dreams. We may forget our dreams, but forgetting is a good sign of memory, we may be having thoughts of good dreams, ideas and feelings that we may not tell others in words.


We just slow down and enjoy what we feel; we will not forget our dreams. I like this idea. We wish Happy Peace Night to each other.


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I: My child friend says that if we like our self, we may always enjoy our dreams. Forgetting is a good sign of memory, we may be having thoughts of good dreams, ideas and feelings that we may not tell others in words, just by slowing down and enjoying what we feel, we will not forget your dreams.


To improve our memory we may learn how to recall what we see in our dreams. We can think, feel and tell it like a story, rather like a real story. OK, Happy Peace Night!


Mum: Thanks, Happy Peace Night, My Child!


She turns the tape recorder off. Then she asks me to write in the logbook about what is the lesson from my discussion with the child friend. I do it as my personal home work.


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I tell my mum about what I have discussed with my child friend in the evening today. She is very pleased. She asks me to write down the main points that my child friend and I have discussed in my logbook of scouting.


I write down it in the pages of helping others as

1

Helping others to enjoy dreams


I write about those who sometimes enjoy and sometimes cannot enjoy dreams. Our discussion, we have discussed it. I discuss it my mum and she helps me. She says that for a discussion point of view, we take one of the most important points in our logbook. She advises me that she would ask me and I will have to answer it as if I ask it and get a reply from the child friend.


She brings a tape recorder. She puts it on and asks me:


Mum: My child, I sometimes enjoy and sometimes cannot enjoy dreams, how can I always enjoy my dreams?


I: Well, you know, the child friend says that the dreams are like what we feel when we do not see with open eyes, hear by ears, smell by nose, tongue does not taste. When our body is not responding to anything outside, we just feel so strongly that our mind makes the images like in a movie. When we see with open eyes, even then our mind receives images. According to these images to makes some meaningful idea of what we see. These images always remain in our mind. Moreover, we judge from what we see, hear and touch.


In dreams the mind also makes some such judgments, but these are based on the images formed in our mind by our senses. When we have a dream, our mind is looking in the art gallery of what we collect by hearing, touching, smelling and other similar ways. If we enjoy our dreams sometimes, it means we may give more respect to our body, mind, heart and soul.


My Mum: All right, is it about our self?


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“Granny says that it is very simple we just need to slow down and enjoy what we feel. We naturally get words to tell it. If we enjoy and imagine about what we enjoy we will not forget our dreams. Is not it?” he says.


“Hey! I know that you want to say that we can improve our memory by learning from dreams. How can it be possible, tell me please?” I ask.


“You know, granny says that to improve our memory we may learn how to recall what we see in our dreams. We can think, feel and tell it like a story, rather like a real story. Is not it?” he replies.


“Yaw, it is a wonderful idea,” I say.


“We should be leaving now, granny waits for me to tell good ideas and thoughts after I finish my homework. OK, I will see you tomorrow evening. Happy Peace Night!” he says.


“Thanks for sharing your ideas. Have Happy Peace Night!” I reply.


“Do not be silly, we are friends. These are our ideas, not just mine, thanks anyway,” he says.


“Oh, I am sorry. Thanks for making it our ideas,” I reply.


He smiles hearing it. He silently accepts my idea. Then he leaves. I see him going. He looks back and waves his hand to convey good wishes to me. I reply in the same way. He looks around at the trees, plants and flowers.


He likes everything in the garden. I always wait to talk to him, when he comes in the evening. I always ponder over what we share, while learning from each other and our mothers and of course, the granny; the great mother. It helps to have a happy peace night.


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“Yaw, it is simple. We just need to accept as we are. Then we can have more love and liking for our self. You know, it helps to always enjoy our dreams,” he replies.


“Hey, you know, I always respect my self and what I have. Can you tell how it helps to enjoy our dreams more?” I ask.


“Yaw, it I easy. You see we can try to enjoy it by recalling. She says that should try to feel and imagine about dreams. Do you think and imagine about your dreams?” he says.


“Yaw, I do. You know some children forget their dreams and cannot enjoy. Do you know why do we forget our dreams?” I ask.


“Well, you know that when I forget granny laughs and says that forgetting is a good sign of memory, you know that we may be having thoughts of good dreams, ideas and feelings that we may not tell others in words,” he says.


“Wow, you know if I want to forget I cannot forget. It means I cannot forget. Is not it?” I say.


“Well, if we try to recall all the times, we can forget,” he says.


“You see I do not have any idea of what you say,” I say.


“Well, we have to learn how to recall properly. You know, sometimes we know the answer but cannot tell in words, is not it.” He says.


“You are right. Then can you tell me have to tell it in words. I mean how we can do it,” I ask.


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“Well, you know, my granny is very intelligent she says that we judge from what we see, hear and touch while we are awake. In dreams the mind also makes some such judgments, but these are based on the images formed in our mind by our senses. Is not it?” he says.


“Wow, it is amazing, you see our mind does many works, like this. It collects and notes whatever we do and happens with us, is not it?” I ask.


“Yaw, you are right. My granny says that when we have a dream, our mind is looking in the art gallery of what we collect by hearing, touching, smelling and other similar ways. Is not it?” he says.


“What does granny says about those children, who have both the good and bad dreams. Can you explain me please?” I ask.


“Yaw, I explain it. You know, granny says that if we enjoy our dreams sometimes, it means we may need to give more respect to your body, mind, heart and soul. It creates harmony. Do you enjoy this harmony?” he asks.


“I enjoy it. You see I just like it as if I enjoy my thought bulb. You know, I respect my body, mind, heart and soul. I do not know what soul is, but it does not matter. Can you tell me, please, how can we love our self in a better way?” I ask.


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“I do not understand it. What does it mean that our mind makes movie from the images?” I ask.


“You know, granny says that when we see with open eyes, even then our mind receives images. It is as if our mind records everything by senses,” he says.


“Gotcha, my mum says that it is our perception. What else does your granny say?” I say.


“You see she says that with these images, as you say our perception, our mind makes some meaningful idea from it. Is not it a great work that our mind does?” he says.


“Hey, you know, it is great. You see these images always remain in our mind. We recall and remember it and we call it our memory. How can we always enjoy and learn from our dreams, does granny says anything about it. Can you tell me please?” I ask.


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“Yaw, but how do you know it?” I ask.


“You know, my mum is a teacher, she helps how to learn in a better way. Do you thank your mum for her helping you?” he asks.


“Yaw, I always do,” I reply.


“You are a good child and have good habits,” he says.


“Thanks, you are a good child friend. You remember, yesterday we were discussing about the dreams that we always enjoy. However, there are some children who sometimes enjoy and sometimes cannot enjoy dreams, how can we always enjoy my dreams? Has your granny ever told you about it?” I ask him.


“Yaw, my granny says that it happens with many children. She says that the dreams are like what we feel when we do not see with open eyes, hear by ears, smell by nose, tongue does not taste. When our body is not responding to anything outside, is not it amazing?” he says.


“Yaw, we just feel so strongly that our mind makes the images like in a movie. Is not it?” he says.


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I am waiting for him and finally he arrives in the peace garden. I rush to him and we wish to each other. He sits with me on the bench. I recall what we were discussing yesterday. I am very eager and after having a little chat I want to continue our talk on the dreams.


“You know, my mum is very intelligent. She asks me in detail what we discuss. Then she explains many good points. Is not it a great that we have someone to care for us?” I say.


“Yaw, I always offer my thanksgiving to Mother Nature and God that we have so many people to care for us, my granny and mum are also very intelligent. My granny explains many difficult questions. You know, even my mum sometimes ask her difficult questions. You know, I think she knows everything. Is not it?” he says.


“Well, my mum says that she does not know everything, but she can tell how to know and learn it. I like her ideas. Is not it wonderful that she can tell how to learn?” I say.


“Yaw, it is a great thing indeed. Hey! Did you have a dream last night?” he asks.
“Well, you know, my mum says that I was having a sound sleep last night, so I did have any dream. You know, the sleep was very refreshing. Anyway, thanks for your ideas about dreams. Do you know what happened last night?” I ask.


“What was it?” he asks.


“My mum asked me to narrate what we discussed yesterday evening and I narrated it,” I reply.


“Well, it is easy to narrate, why are you saying it as if it is a wonder,” he asks.


“You know, she helped me to write it in my logbook of scouting and then she recorded in the tape recorder what I recorded. Is not it a wonderful idea?” I say.


“Wow, I cannot believe it. Your mum is great. Is she a teacher?” he asks.


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I tell her and ask to help me in writing it. She writes it with the following heading:

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Learning A Lesson And A Tip For Happy Peace Night


She explains to me that if we enjoy our dreams, it helps to keep us smiling and happy, what is more is that our body, mind, heart and soul remain healthy. We can share your dreams with others.


However, we can make our dreams good and by sketching and drawing what we see in our good dreams, it will help others enjoy about our dreams and us.


She explains that I we write down important points and record it by speaking; it helps a lot. I thank her. We wish each other Happy Peace Night after I get the lesson of the day as the tip to trip for sweet dreams.


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Now, it is her one of the best way to teach me by interviewing me with her tape recorder. She puts it on and asks me:


Mum: My child, I always enjoy my dreams. How can I keep it up?


I: You know, if we enjoy our dreams, we can keep it up as it helps to keep us smiling and happy, what is more is that our body; mind, heart and soul remain healthy. We can share your dreams with others. However, we can make our dreams good by sketching and drawing what we see in our good dreams, it will help others enjoy about us and our dreams.


There are three points in your dreams, firstly we enjoy it while in sleep, after getting up you remember it, thirdly while we share it with others. Yaw, the child friend says that it is a beautiful experience to learn how our mind feels what it hears, tastes, and touches when body is in rest we are not aware about the surroundings.


To have good dreams we need to relax our self by thinking about the day, remembering whatever we did and offering thanks to God and Mother Nature for what we enjoyed solving and doing. Then we discussed that we may also pray to seek help to solve the problems in a better way.


Sometimes we find some hints, clues and solutions in our dream, we may ask our elders about what hints and meanings are hidden in our dreams.


On getting up in the morning, we may also think about our dreams, we get some good points for that day. OK, have Happy Peace Night!


Mum: Thanks have Happy Peace Night, My Child!


She turns the tape recorder off. Then she asks me to write in the logbook about what is the lesson from my discussion with the child friend.


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