Ideal Single Mother Builds and then Gives the Child a Dream to Enjoy, Share and Show the World to be Mother or Father of Nation-V

If there is the most amazing thing in the world, it is the Eight Wonder of the World, the way my mum wants to have her opinion as the best guide in scouting. I tell my mum about what I have discussed with my child friend. She is very pleased. She asks me to write down the main points that my child friend and I have discussed in my logbook of scouting.


I write down it in the pages of helping others as:


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Helping others to enjoy dreams


I write about those who always enjoy dreams and in our discussion, we have discussed the same that if one always enjoys the dreams.


I discuss it my mum and she helps me. She says that for a discussion point of view, we take one of the most important points in our logbook.


She advises me that she would ask me and I will have to answer it as if I ask it and get a reply from the child friend.


She brings a tape recorder.


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“It is a fantastic idea; I also ask my mum and dad about it. Sometimes, my elder sister, Simi tells it. What else can we do to understand it in a better way?” I ask.


“Well, you see, on getting up in the morning, we may also think about our dreams, we get some good points for that day. Is not it?” he replies.


“Wow! It is a wonderful idea. You want to say that we can manage our days by recalling, thinking and learning from our dreams. Is not it?” I ask.


“Yaw, we can do it. You know, I always do it. I have to finish my homework. I am going. OK, We will meet tomorrow have Happy Peace Night and Have Nice Dreams!” he says.


“OK, thanks and have Happy Peace Night!” I reply.


We both leave the peace garden. We meet everyday in the late evening. I always talk to him about many things. He tells what his granny and others has taught him.


He learns from everybody and enjoys sharing it. I will meet him tomorrow in the evening.


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There conversation is as if they are building the concrete future as their mothers have given them as a gift by leaving them to think freely and in the most innovative way-their own way. What I share with him as a child friend is my scouting in the same manner as moms scout in the world as the mom guides.


“Yaw, she says that we can relax by thinking about the day, remembering whatever we did and offering thanks to God and mother Nature for what you enjoyed solving and doing. Is not it?” he says.


“Hey! I always offer my prayer of thanksgiving. You are right, you know we can also pray to seek help to solve the problems in a better way.” I reply.


“Yaw, the granny says that sometimes we find some hints, clues and solutions in our dream. Is not it?” he says.


“It is right, but have you ever asked her how can we understand these things?” I ask.


“Yaw, you know, when I ask her she replies that we may ask our elders about what hints and meanings are hidden in our dreams.” He replies.


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“I will tell you. You see we have three important points that we can notice about our dreams. First point is that we enjoy it while in sleep. Is not it?” he says.


“Yaw, we enjoy it. I always wait to have for enjoying dreams. What is the second point?” I ask.


“Well, the second point is that after getting up we recall and remember our dreams and enjoy it. Is not it?” he says.


“Yaw, I always do it. What is the third point?” I ask. “Well, the granny says that the third important point is that we also enjoy when we share it with others. Is not it?” he says.


“Wow, we enjoy our dreams in many ways. We can learn a lot from our dreams. Is not it?” I reply.


“Yaw, my granny says that it is a beautiful experience to learn how our mind feels in dreams. You know when we are in sleep that our mind hears, tastes, and touches when body is in rest we are not aware about the surroundings. She says that to have good dreams we need to relax our self, is not it,” he says.


“Yaw, sometimes I do not feel relax, then my mum gives me a massage. Does your granny tell how can we relax our self?” I ask.


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I am strolling in the garden with the child friend. We discuss about enjoying dreams. He tells me everything in detail as his granny and mother explain and I like it very much.


“Do you enjoy your dreams?” he asks.


“Yaw, I always enjoy my dreams and I keep it up, can you tell me, please what granny says about it?” I ask.


“Well, you know, my granny says that if we enjoy our dreams, we should keep it up as it helps to keep us smiling and happy. She says that our body; mind, heart and soul remain healthy,” he replies.


“Well, your granny is great. Can you tell me, how can we share our dreams with others?” I say.


“You know, she says that we can share our dreams by many means. We can make sharing of our dreams by sketching and drawing what we see in our good dream, it helps others to enjoy about our self and our dreams,” he replies.


“Wow, I like it. I can do it. I will do it because I can recall my dream. I try to find what is important in our dreams. Can you tell me, please?” I ask.


I find it amazing because after all we are the child friends.


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He starts to stroll in the garden and write down the main points.


"He's a well planned boy. His points are beautifully written. I know his mom guides him in a special way as my mom does. My mom always says that world doesn't know about the body, but about what I do. His points are good, I always want to have beautiful dreams. I know when can have if we plan the day in a scouting way. It seems I have finside all points. I see, everting is noted down."


When I finish my writing, I move my eyes filled with joy to see him, so I look around the garden to see him.


As soon as we see each other, I wave my hand to him.


He runs towards me. I stand up. We both are happy. I hand over his notebook to him. We wish Happy Peace Night to each other and leave the peace garden.


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“Can you tell me, please, how does it help?” I ask.


“You see when we ask for each question from others, we can learn more and improve by reading all the answers and can know about how others feel about it, so you can share it with others. It puts our thought bulb on. Is not it?” he replies.


“You see, I have a new notebook for it. I write down the way you do it and then we will discuss about each point, is it all right with you?” I ask.


“Yaw, it is all right. You write it down. We will start discussing about it from tomorrow evening, is it OK,” he asks.


“All right, I write it down then I will show it my mum. Wow, you know, she will be very happy to see and it,” I say.


“OK, as you wish. I stroll in the garden, while you write it down, OK,” he says.


“OK, thanks,” I reply.


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“Yaw, I note down the five different answers for one question,” he replies.


“Wow, you have written the question beautifully, it says, “Do you enjoy dreams that you have while you are in sleep?” Hey! You have one question and five answers for each as others tell you. What is on the next page?” I say.


“Well, you can see the way I select and note down the answers,” he says.


“Well, it says, we may have the five following answers:


1. I always enjoy my dreams


2. I sometimes enjoy and sometimes cannot enjoy dreams


3. I enjoy good dream, but not the bad dreams


4. I cannot enjoy because mostly I have only bad dreams


5. I sometimes do not have any dream


You have written the five answers, with the name of the person, who replies. It is a wonderful idea, is not it” I say.


“Thanks, my granny advises me how to learn, write and then think about it. It helps a lot,” he says.


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I talk to my mum about the child friend. She enjoys it. I tell her that he will bring the notebook of Happy Peace Night. She asks me read and understand it.


Next day, when I reach in the garden, I see him waiting for me with his notebook.


I run to meet him. He welcomes me with warm wishes. Then he gives me his notebook.


“Thanks, my friend, it is a beautiful notebook, you have written it with the heading, it says, Daily Moral Insight from my granny for a Peaceful Night, it is wonderful. Do you ask and learn from your granny?” I ask.


“Yaw, my granny tells me what to write,” he replies.


“Can I read it, please?” I ask.


“Yaw, you are always welcome to read and share about it,” he replies.


“Well, it says that we have different habits, hobbies, interests, likes, dislikes, talents, qualities and other individual difference. Therefore, we may have different questions that we may like to ask from our child friends and others. We can have many answers. Do you write down the answers?” I ask.


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“You know, my granny says that the HPN stands for Happy Peace Night, let us have it everyday, I am leaving now,” he says.


“My Child Friend, Please bring and show me your notebook tomorrow evening,” I say.


“All right, I will bring it, ok, bye,” he says.


“Thanks, I will wait for you. Bye!” I say.


I see that he leaves with his tender feet in the shoes. He goes out of the garden. When I welcome the next morning, I find myself fresh.


In my morning prayer, I thank my child friend offering the thanksgiving that we can learn to enjoy the dreams and can have Happy Peace Night.


Now, my child friend is going to discuss about it to his mother.


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“Wow, you are a wonder child. It is amazing. You know, I write it, as you want to write. You are an intelligent student,” he says.


“Thanks, you know, you are a good child friend and a thought bulb,” I say.


“Well, I am not a thought bulb. My bulb goes on, when someone calls me child friend,” he says.


“Yaw, you are right, let us do so, thanks and have a Happy Peace Night!” he says.
“Have Happy Peace Night, thanks for your sharing,” I say.


“You are welcome. We will meet tomorrow in the evening; we will also discuss it here in the peace garden. I will discuss it with my granny, until then have sweet dreams,” he says.


“OK, thanks. Please come, I will wait for you tomorrow evening,” I say.
“Thanks, I will surely come and we will meet until then, good bye and HPN,” he says.


“What is HPN?” I ask.


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They know that scouting is art of outing in a scientific way-the Science of Outing.


“You mean the log book of scouting. It is wonderful. I like it. You have a good thought bulb,” I say.


“Thanks, you know, my granny says that when we discuss we should remember it. Therefore, I listen to her and write it down in my language. You can also do it,” he replies.


“Well, I can do it as I write down in my log book. How do you do it?” I ask.


“It is simple, she says after reading or listening to the discussion, we have to note down only two points,” he says.


“It seems easy. What are these two points?” I ask.


“Well, these two points are what we discuss and the conclusion that we make from the discussion. Is not it a good point?” he says.


“Yaw, you know my thought bulb is on, I would write it as the main points of Happy Peace Night. It will note it from our discussion. Hey! I will also write a lesson that we learn from our discussion. We can think of a tip to have A Happy Peace Night. Is not it a good idea?” I ask.


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They enjoy their sharing.


“You know, my granny says that when we go to sleep, Mother Nature teaches us and dreams are Her teachers. Is not it?” he replies.


“Well, I agree. I want to learn from these teachers of night. How can we learn from these teachers?” I ask.


“Hey, it is so simple. Anybody can learn it. You know, my granny says that when we have a dream, we should take it as a lesson. Therefore, I write it down. Then I discuss it with her. She explains it to me. I make a collection of what I learn from the dreams,” he says.


“Well, it is a good idea. Do you keep a note book for it?” I ask.


“Yaw, I keep a note book. You know, the name of this note book is Happy Peace Night,” he says.


“It is a beautiful a name, the notebook of Happy Peace Night. Can you share about your note book?” I ask.


“Well, I would like to do so, but you know you have one of the similar notebook, just recall it,” he replies.


“I do not have any such notebook. Can you give me a clue, please?” I ask.


“The clue is scouting,” he replies.


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They continue their discussion.


“My name is child friend,” he replies.


“Well, it is not a name, is it?” I ask.


“You know, my granny says that the friends do not have names, you know, she calls me by this name,” he says.


“OK, I will call you child friend,” I say.


“Thanks, I will tell her that you accept and respect me as a child friend. Hey! See in the sky, there are many twinkling stars,” he says.


“Wow, it is a wonderful thing that we enjoy every night. Is not it?” I reply.


“You are right; my granny says that we enjoy dreams and sleep, if we offer thanks to Mother Nature and the beautiful things that we enjoy. Is not it?” he says.


“Well, you see it is a wonderful that we have dreams and get up refreshed in the morning. Do you enjoy it?” I say.


“You know I always have wonderful dreams, I like to have good dreams every night, do you wish it,” he says.


“Yaw, I do. I always wish to enjoy my dreams,” he replies.


“OK, then we will talk about dreams and prayers. We will also discuss about what we can think and imagine about it. Is it all right with you?” I ask.


“Hey, you see it is a good idea. I have very good ideas when I have my thought bulb is on,” he says.


“Wow, the thought bulb is like a supercomputer, I also enjoy when it goes on. Do you ask funny questions when your bulb is on?” I ask.


“Yaw, I learn many things from my granny about it. She tells and explains me about the dreams and how we can enjoy it. You know, she explains it beautifully, she says that the dreams are like our teachers of the night, is not it?” he says.


“Well, it sounds good, the teachers of the night. We learn many things from our dreams, is not it. You see the grannies have many thought bulbs. They always give good ideas. Well, I want to know from you why you call it the teachers of the night,” I ask.


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Ideal Single Mother and Parenthood-I Am Not Afraid-Says Single Mother's Child-I

I am sitting in the peace garden enjoying the natural beauty of the garden. Everything in the garden appeals to me so much that I come here every evening. I see a child entering into the garden; he enjoys trees, plants and flowers.

I wonder the way does it. He stands in front of what he enjoys. He is not aware of me, when he to see the flowers near where I am sitting. He looks at me as well. After passing a deep smile, he wishes me. I smile and wish with a same response in return. He asks me if he can sit along with me.


We sit together and talk for a while. I realize that he is a keen learner and a jolly person. We start to meet every evening. One evening, he comes and we wish to each other.


“You know, my granny says that we should not make friends with strangers, but you do not seem a stranger to me,” he says.


“Well, I thank you. It is nice meeting you. You know, I have the same feelings,” I reply.


“It happens; sometimes we have the same feelings. You know, whatever we talk over here in the peace garden, I tell all of it to my granny and mother. They enjoy, tell and explain many things to me about it. Do you know what they say about you?” he says.


“Well, I do not know, but I wish to know. Can you tell me what do they say about me?” I ask.


“You look funny, you know everyone loves children, we are the child friends. Well, they say that you are a very honest person about what you say. You know, I feel that your company is very good. I mean we keep a good company. We can always talk, discuss and share good things. Is not it?” he says.


“Hey, I love to talk a lot. Do you like it too?” I ask.


“Yaw, I like it. I also like listening. You know, we can enjoy our company very well,” I say.


“I like your ideas. What is your good name,” I ask.


We will continue this sessions between these two children, as one is from single mother, and slowly their mothers and grand parents guide them about the world. The theme also focuses on the Happy Good Night-A Dream that a child needs. Thanks!